Formal

Daytime (before 6:00 PM)
Bride:
Dress
Floor length, cathedral or sweep train. Long or short sleeves.
Veil
Fingertip or longer if preferred; blush veil optional.
Gloves
Optional.
Attendants:
Dress
Floor or ballerina length. Dresses may be shorter than the Brides but all attendants’ dresses must be the same length.
Gloves
Yes, if short sleeved dress. Optional if long sleeved.
Mothers:
Dress
Dressy afternoon gown, long or shorter length. Long or short sleeved.
Groom and Best Man:
Jacket
Winter: Cutaway or oxford gray or black.
Summer: Cutaway or stroller coat.
Trousers
Winter: Black or gray striped.
Summer: Gray striped.
Shirt
Pleated or plain bosom. Wing or turned down collar.
Tie
Gray ascot.
Groomsmen and Fathers:
Dress the same as Groom and Best Man. Ushers all dress alike but ties and gray tone in trousers may vary. Wing collar is only worn by Groom and Best Man.
Guests:
Ladies
Elegant daytime dress; silk pants suit.
Gentlemen

Suit.

Evening (after 6:00 PM)
Bride:
Dress
Floor length with short, sweep or cathedral train.
Veil
Fingertip or longer; blush veil optional.
Gloves
Long or short gloves with short-sleeved gown. Optional if long sleeved.
Attendants:
Dress
Floor or ballerina length. Dresses may be shorter than the Brides but all attendants’ dresses must be the same length.
Gloves
Yes, if short sleeved dress. Optional if long sleeved.
Mothers:
Dress
Floor length or shorter dinner or cocktail dress. Long or short sleeved. Never black. Gloves
Groom and Best Man:
Jacket
Tailcoat; black or midnight blue.
Trousers
To match jacket.
Shirt
Wing collar.
Tie
White.
Hat Silk Opera.
Gloves White.
Groomsmen and Fathers: Wear full evening attire. Ushers are the same as that for the Groom and Best Man.
Guests: Ladies Elegant long or short evening dress or suit
Gentlemen Black-tie (tuxedo)
 Evening Weddings (after 6pm)

Daytime Weddings (before 6pm)

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