Ultraformal

Daytime (before 6:00 PM)
Bride:
Dress
Full length with cathedral or shorter train. Long or short sleeves.
Veil
Long or fingertip; blush veil if desired.
Gloves
Long or short with short-sleeved dress. None with long sleeves.
Attendants:
Dress
Long or ballerina length.
Gloves
Yes, if dress has short sleeves. Optional if long sleeved.
Mothers:
Dress
Floor or cocktail length. Long or short sleeved. Black is never worn.
Groom and Best Man:
Jacket
Winter: Cutaway or oxford gray or black.
Summer: Cutaway or stroller coat.
Trousers
Winter: Black or gray striped.
Summer: Gray striped.
Shirt
Wing or turndown collar.
Tie
Gray ascot.
Groomsmen and Fathers:
Attire is like the Groom and Best Man; ties may vary in color or stripe.
Guests:
Ladies
Elegant short dress or suit.
Gentlemen
Suit.
Evening (after 6:00 PM)
Bride:
Dress
Full length. Long or short sleeves. Cathedral or shorter train.
Veil
Full length; blush veil if desired.
Gloves
Optional with long sleeve dress. Kid gloves with short sleeves.
Attendants:
Dress
Long or ballerina length.
Gloves
Required if short sleeved, white or tinted to match dress.
Mothers:
Dress
Floor length evening gown. Long or short sleeved. Gloves of proper length. Black is never worn.
Groom and Best Man:
Jacket
Tailcoat; black or midnight blue.
Trousers
To match jacket.
Shirt
Wing collar.
Tie
White.
Hat Silk Opera.
Gloves White.
Groomsmen: Dress alike; full evening attire the same as that for the Groom and Best Man.
Fathers: Follows the Dress status of the Groom and Best Man
Guests: Ladies Long or short evening gown; cocktail dress.
Gentlemen Black-tie (tuxedo) or white-tie (tails).
 Evening Weddings (after 6pm)

Daytime Weddings (before 6pm)

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